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Reflecting on the past school year: Recognizing the good and good enough By Kirsten Ellingsen, PhD

6/10/2021

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Welcome Summer. Goodbye to the 2020-2021 school year. An academic year that started at home and online for many students and ended with some never returning to brick and mortar schools. There were new demands, challenges, and expectations for learning. Video instruction, technology glitches, masks, quarantine. Distance from friends, cancelled activities, postponed celebrations, as well as limitations on travel, social interactions, and time with extended family. New sources of stress. Navigating a “new normal”.
 
I have been inspired and impressed by the perseverance and effort of so many children, teens, and their parents during the Covid pandemic to complete this school year. I witnessed resiliency and sacrifice, loss, and connection. A focus on what is essential and letting go of what is not.
 
Take time to acknowledge all that you as a parent did to get here.  Recognize all your child or teen did to finish the school year.
 
Take time to reflect on these accomplishments in the light of a global pandemic with all the challenges, uncertainty, disappointment, fears, and frustrations. While the circumstances, resources and impact were unique for each family, there were new demands and difficult decisions for everyone. Even when there was gratitude and appreciation for more time together as a family, the change in caregiving, learning, and work demands truly required adjustment and flexibility at a whole new level.
 
As summer approaches, try to look back at the past year with compassion. Have compassion for yourself, your child or teen, their teachers, your family and friends.
 
Celebrate successes with a big picture perspective that also sees what it took each day to finish.
The standards might be different than in the past. Maybe it was a major academic accomplishment, courage demonstrated, relationships cherished, or moments that were enjoyed. Maybe it was getting “just enough” done each day to keep moving forward.
 
Allow space and time to adjust and return to previous life activities. Let yourself feel the positive and the negative from the past year. Acknowledge and accept disappointments. Be grateful for what was enjoyed and gained. Do a regular “self-check” to bring awareness to your own feelings and needs and model this self-care. Pay attention to the effects of chronic stress that might be felt more now as the school year ends and academic demands decrease.
 
Finally, recognize the good, the positive moments and good enough accomplishments without minimizing the impact of true grief or loss, trauma, or hardship. If there was loss, be aware of what is needed to grieve and be particularly mindful during anniversaries. Please seek support if you or your child are struggling with loss, having difficulty managing anxiety or depression, or if you could benefit from using more effective or healthier coping strategies.

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4/27/2022 06:13:09 am

ks for sharing the article, and more importantly, your personal experience mindfully using our emotions as data about our inner state and knowi scng when it’s better to de-escalate by taking a time out are great dzctools. Appreciate you reading and sharing your story since I can certainly relate and I think others can to

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